Thursday, July 24, 2014

India - The Topic is Over !!


How are politicians different from common man? They frame rules, expect people to follow saying, only then, they can re-define the country's future.

But, does the same rule come with any *Terms & Conditions* saying ‘Not applicable to politicians who rule people’?? Where is the nation marching towards?

From the day I started counting on my fingers, I kept hearing ‘India’ – developing country?? I feel ashamed to accept this fact anymore.


There happens a disaster killing people and then, they arrive expressing grief and announcing ex-Gratia. Everybody talks about it, sobs for a day or two, media expels its words at the leaders and their inefficiencies and then, everybody forgets.



Are those ex-Gratia funds not people’s money? Why don’t the so called leaders spend those funds creating a proper system before in hand and not wait until a tragedy happens for them to react?

We don’t want your condolences. Can you bring back the lost lives? Can you re-build a lost family ?

They expect common man to follow rules laid by them but, what are the leaders doing?

OK! I understand. They’re busy filling their pockets, breaking rules and seeking backdoor approvals for new business start-up’s, making serious plans about how to get even rich stabbing a common man’s resource, renege to keep up their promises. 



Are the above stated, any sort of qualification to rule people in the largest democratic country like India?



A country with fastest growing economy, a country with huge human resource but, failing badly since years in establishing an administrative system. How can an administrative system be formed, if we sit at home and watch over hyped news that media channels telecast all through the day, week, months & years? 

Our constitution say’s every individual has the ‘Right to Speech’. Cannot we question the so called ‘Rulers’? Are we dumb souls to sit and watch the ‘Puppet’ show? 



Change doesn’t happen overnight just when a politician fulfills his election promise or when administrative rules are passed. How many of us really care to abide by them loyally ? If we cannot follow them, if we cannot question our rights, system & leaders then, we should not expect system to change.

Politicians don’t have a magic wand or they have not mastered make-up artistry to paint the walls of India ‘Clean & White’ and doll-up India as developed one. Everybody has an excuse to justify when questioned and so does politicians too.

If we cannot question, If we cannot fight back then, better we forget about developed India & stop expecting politicians to build an organized, orderly system for us




Now, I don’t want to get my fingers dirty here pointing at the in-efficient leaders nor, I don’t want to be judged for generalizing all politicians under one umbrella. One man like NAMO, chaired as PM cannot solely change the fate of the country. Yes, each soul of the country needs to change. I mean 100% change happens only if you, I & 1.2 billion decide to change.

Until then, Believe it or not! ‘India – A developed country’ will remain as a dream forever and ever. 



P.S: Thank you for having read my opinion patiently. Now, please don’t judge me for sitting on a foreign land and writing some sort of crap about my mother land. Only if you get to experience life in a developed country, you will understand what it feels like to be in a country like ‘India’. No matter what, I love my country any day.


Thursday, July 3, 2014

Love Treat !!

A little 'Love' treat to ' Beautiful Women ' of my life


There is no need for a day to express my love for her or do I really need a reason to write about her :)



Angel from heaven, Mommy - My first love forever.
A reason for I'm here today, SHE gave me gift of LIFE.

I've seen it in her eyes, her smile,
Her unconditional & endless love, soothing hugs & kisses,
Heavenly love that nurtured me grow into 'Beautiful & Bold Lady' that SHE always wanted me to be.

SHE knows the complete ME,
Thought me to enjoy the smallest things in life,
For, that joy brought happiness & enlightenment into my life.
Angel from heaven, Mommy - My first love forever.

For all the times, she had been by my side in my happiness & blues,
For all the love, care & comfort all through the years,
There could be no another, She's forever.
Angel from heaven, Mommy - My first love forever.

Beauty & Grace that SHE carry,
HER striving to make house a beautiful 'HOME',
Strongest women that I've ever known, I will look up to forever,
Angel from heaven, Mommy - My first love forever.

All I wish is to be that 'IDLE MOTHER' just like 'YOU', when I become a 'MOM'.




Eternally,
Your Little Girl

Friday, June 27, 2014

Sheer Senseless Stupidity !!

I'm no Guru nor, am I a Life coach. But, irresistible I wanted to pen this.

 

Many of you reading this post may have come across people who often come to you with intrigued questions that sound so stupid that, sometimes make you laugh, irritate and at times make you loose your cool. So much inquisitive in others private life that they even forget to think about their own life and goals. 

A few pose pure insane, stupid questions expecting an answer. Pity them !! How does this benefit them in any way ? Does this enhance their skills or does this add to their knowledge? Everybody got a life, we need to think better, work towards reaching goals and aspire in growing to better standards.
There is no wrong in asking questions, gossiping, being a critic and having fun. But, there is a limit for every do and does stupidity too. At times, you need to be tactful and diplomatic while talking. 

Here I go with a top list of most stupid questions I have been asked. This post of mine is not just out of sheer criticism or am I judging anybody here. But, my only hope is to put forth a message to the inquisitive clan out there, reminding them to at-least re-think from now on before they ask some stupid, private life questions to people when they talk.
P.S: No hard feelings please. Enjoy reading and I'm sure you will wear that smile on, as you read through :)

1. You're fat, you could have become slim for your wedding ?
Is it written on my face 'I'm fat' ? I'm healthy & happy .. What's bothering you ? Is there a rule book that say's every one needs to be slim & trim to get married ? Is that alright, if I get thinner for sake of wedding and regain back post wedding ? 

2. You went to a International school, I thought your family is rich. Why did you buy a Honda car and not a Mercedes ?
Huh ! Is that a question ? Insane !! ... Just because, I went to a international school doesn't mean my Dad is 'Bill Gates' and neither I was put up there to get accredited as 'Rich'. 

3. Why did you wear that dress the other day ? You should have worn something else ?
What did you just ask ?? I'm not here to impress you. I cannot wear what you like. I buy what I can afford and that I'm comfortable wearing. Cannot you discuss anything better ? Try being diplomatic. 

4. Oh ! Yours is love marriage ? You did not even tell me.
Uhhhh ! Do I've to announce this to the world ? Is this some where in the so-called rule book ? Please show me ? 

5. I heard you were once in a relationship with Mr.X and you later broke up ? What happened ?
Yeah ! Does this bother you in anyway ? Mr/Ms/Mrs inquisitive ! You just heard a 'once upon a time' story from some jerks, but did you see it with your own eyes to believe that cock & bull story ? Please get your facts right next time you come back to me and ask something like this or I will punch in your face. Boom !!

6. I see restaurant check-in updates from you on Face Book . Don't you or any of your family know how to cook ?
You boredom people ! Because, I go to restaurants a few times in a week it doesn't mean nobody at home cooks. Did you ever go to a restaurant in your life ? which planet did you come from ? 

7. Can you please 'Like' my profile picture ?
Who are you to tell me, what to 'Like', what to wear, what to buy, what to eat, & how to look ? Please look into your life and stop being nosy ! 

8. You went to a Women's college why ? Were you into too many relationships in your teens that your parents feared ?
OMG ! What kind of species are you ? I myself never thought of this. if you've lost your senses please, travel to Himalayas and come back to life.

And the list goes on .................................................